Gerald “Jerry” Stidham

Gerald “Jerry” Stidham died peacefully on May 11, 2019 with family at Oakley Place in Topeka, KS. He was born on December 19, 1936 the son of Roy and Clara (Moore) Stidham. He was born in Toledo, Washington at the foot on Mt. St. Helen.
Jerry was employed as a lumberjack, served in the Air Force, sold insurance and was a realtor for Kirk and Cobb Realtors for 30 years.

Jerry was a member of Wanamaker Woods Church of the Nazarene. He enjoyed playing golf, puzzles, cards, and dogs Suzie and Suzie 2.

Jerry was preceded in death by his parents, a son James George who died at birth, and sister Donna Stidham Hughes.

Jerry is survived by his wife, Myrna Persing Stidham, daughter Jan Stidham Cavalieri, granddaughter Elizabeth Unrein (Michael) Allen, stepdaughter Caroline (Andrew) Einwick, stepson Benjamin Hayne, step grandchildren Avery Einwick (Steve) Trickey, Holly Hayne, Philip (Nadia) Einwick, Brooke Hayne (Paul) Kulik, Howard Hayne, and 5 great grandchildren, Kayden Trickey, Olive Kulik, Sloane Trickey, Piper Kulik, and Dexter Kulik, Brothers Gene (Beverly) Stidham, Bob (Gina) Harper, Jackie Madsen. Half siblings Debbie, Douglas (deceased), Lori and Lisa.

Jerry loved his golf buddies, his family and friends but most of all his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Jerry will be so missed. He was a wonderful husband and father.

A Celebration of Jerry’s Life with military honors will be Monday, May 20, 2019 at Wanamaker Woods Church of the Nazarene at 3501 SW Wanamaker, Topeka, KS 66614 at 11:00. Visitation 10:00-11:00.

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  1. Dear Myrna and Jan,
    I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of Jerry. He was a wonderful husband, father and person. He was and will always be in the hearts of everyone who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with both of you during this difficult time. To my dad, Gene Stidham, I know you will always cherish the wonderful memories of your brother Jerry especially the vacations you all took together or whether you two were just reminiscing over the phone. The last time I saw uncle Jerry is when he and Myrna came to my house in Las Vegas a few years ago for my dad’s 80th birthday. He had such a great time and I remember his kindness, his smile and most of all his laughter! Jerry will truly be missed and I know he is in a much better place now. We love you uncle Jerry and rest in peace.

  2. Sincere sympathy is extended to our former co-worker, Myrna, and the rest of Jerry’s family upon learning of his recent passing. He was always cordial and outgoing at any of the Security Benefit functions he attended the years Myrna was working. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Security Benefit Retirees

  3. Sincere sympathy is extended to Myrna and all of Jerry’s family. He was always very friendly and cordial to Myrna’s co-workers at Security Benefit, and we extend our thoughts and prayers to all of you.
    Security Benefit Retirees

  4. My heart goes out to Myrna, Jan and the rest of the family. I’m so sorry for the loss of your husband and father, Jerry was a wonderful person. To my dad, Gene Stidham, I know how much you cherished the times you spent with your brother Jerry whether you were all vacationing together or just simple talk over the phone and reminiscing. The last time I saw Uncle Jerry and Myrna is when they came to my house in Las Vegas for my dad’s 80th birthday party a few years ago. Uncle Jerry had such a great time. I remember his kindness, his smile, his great stories and especially his laughter! Uncle Jerry will truly be missed by everyone. I know he is in a better place now and free from pain. Rest in peace Uncle Jerry.

    Love always,
    Sherry (Stidham) Housfeld

  5. Thank you so much for all your amazing condolences. Myrna and I are doing OK I think, just so grateful that he is now without pain. As many of you mentioned, my father was a wonderful conversationalist and while our “views” often differed tremendously we always respected each other’s opinions. I learned so much from him. He had me doing simple math problems at bedtime instead of reading me a book. He got me a subscription to Scientific American when I was 12 (I needed a dictionary to go with it). At my slumber parties he would steal the show by paying a nickle or a dime to whoever could correctly spell certain words! He always made me think and he read and knew everything. I am going to miss our conversations so very much – there is nobody like him to talk to. and nobody as supportive of me as him. He was my best playmate. I love you Daddy.

  6. I got to know Jerry when I was a realtor at Kirk and Cobb! He was always so helpful! Then he was a customer when I worked at Walgreen’s. A very kind and gentle spirit of a man. My deepest sympathy.

  7. Myrna,

    Please accept our condolences at Jerry’s passing. We remember the many dinner parties we had with you guys and the others over the years. He was a great guy and a good friend to many.

  8. Dear Family of Mr. Stidham,
    I am so sorry for your loss. May God’s promise bring you comfort. There will be “a new earth… and He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore… I am making all things new.” Revelation 21:1-5

  9. Condolences to Jerry’s family, he will forever be missed and remain in our hearts. I loved visiting with him.

  10. Dear Myrna and Jan,
    My deepest sympathy to you and your extended family and friends.
    Gina sent us pictures of their visit and brother Jerry looked so young and handsome. Just as I remember him. Always happy and loving to us all. May he rest in heavenly peace.
    Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Love, Lori

  11. Personally I will miss this wonderful man and the interesting conversations we shared. I could listen to him talk all day. He was a special human being and will be immensely missed. He was an adorable child too. Blessing to his immediate family. We are all so fortunate to have known or shared any part of his life. Love cousin Claudette

  12. Myrna and family,
    We will certainly miss our friend and brother in the Lord. We have enjoyed his friendship for many years. We know he is in a wonderful, amazing Glory with his Lord and Savior. We also have the assurance of a wonderful reunion with him. We pray the Lord’s riches comfort and blessings.

    Jim and Jan Coen

  13. Wow brother, I can’t believe that you are gone. Gina and I will certainly miss you and all the great times and conversations we had over the years. You were one of the good guys and I feel so fortunate to have had the pleasure of having you as my big brother for 82 years. I have to agree with brother Gene and his lovely wife, Beverly, you will be in our thought and prayers.
    Our hearts go out to Myrna and Jan. We are so sorry that you lost your husband and dad.

    I’m so happy that you are in a far better place now. A place where there isn’t any pain or suffering.

    Rest in peace brother Jerry and we will always love you for as long as we live.

  14. Dear Jan,
    My heart goes out to you. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your father. I’m here if you need me.

    Cheryl Bozarth

  15. My condolences go out to family and friends. Jerry’s personality was contagious he always kept us in smiles at oakley place. He will be truly missed .❤

  16. My heart is breaking. I loved Uncle Jerry, and I believe that last time I got to see him was when my Mom passed. I know that God has a seat right next to Him. He was a very kind and loving man! Now he will be with his parents and his sister and half brother.

    To Myrna and Jan, my heart aches for what you are going thru. I hope God will help with the grieve and you can find a way to keep living life!

    I love you all! Kathy (Hughes) Srsen

  17. Such a wonderful brother, who will be missed deeply by all of us. Many memories we shared together as brothers. I am so grateful for the time we spent together. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

    Rest in Peace Brother. Love You Forever.

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